Winters
are known for their harshness in Kashmir. And talk about Chillai Kalan, the forty toughest days of the year, you would have
to negotiate umpteen times with yourself and your wushnear to venture out of your cosy home till at least the time
when the sun is already halfway through its dawn to dusk ‘journey’ (it is we
who are moving, though. Sun is stationary, at least, with respect to us!).
But one thing draws at least one member of each family right out of the wushnear of their cosy homes at a time
when the sun is yet to begin its ‘journey’ and people (mostly old!) are just coming
back from masjid after Fajr and the Azkaar that follow. But the thing
i mentioned above is not just a thing, it is a combination of many things…..it
is a local newsroom, a round-hearth (local variant of round-table) discussion
table for Cricket and Politics, a place for negotiating small deals, a place to
get fresh hot embers for kangri, a thakpaend for the insomniacs and
primarily a place for fetching home a few crisp lawaas. Plus, if you get along a bit too lucky, you may even get to
have a sip or two of the steaming hot noon-chai at this versatile Kashmiri Kandur-waan!
The primary purpose of one’s tour de Kandur-waan is obviously to fetch
home some fresh and crisp bread early in the morning. But natural, there is
always something secondary to a primary. The latest news from the neighbourhood
is first heard at the Kandur-waan and
the person who braves chilling gutsy atmosphere in the morning to fetch some lawaas returns home with a bonus…..the
breaking news. If it happens to be a morning when the preceding evening (or
night) witnessed a loss for Pakistan team or a win for the Indian team, or vice-versa,
in a cricket match, the customers at the waan
all but forget what they had really come for! For all those who were a tad unfortunate
not to have gotten a hot kangri at
home, the waan is the ultimate solace
providing fresh hot embers for the kangri.
Insomniacs, or raatmongals as we call them, whose late sleep got disrupted midway
due to calls from parents to fetch lawaas,
find Kandur-waan a good place for a
nap and in the meantime the late comers to the waan take advantage of this nap and take home the lawaas. The insomniac being among the
first ones to come, is the last one to go back home. An often experienced thing
which occurs here is that the time for which one has to wait for his turn is
directly proportional to the no. of lawaas
he has to take home. The ones asking for less than 4 lawaas have the kaandur
on their side with a sympathetic jibe, “eemis
chhe nein kamee” which means, “he has to take too few to wait here”.
Apart from lawaas, a Kandur-waan has
a lesson to offer for us. We are in this world with some primary purpose,
secondary purposes come along. Fellow ‘customers’ come and go. Let us not
become the insomniacs and lose sleep over matters sub-critical and fall asleep when
the primary purpose beckons!!!
(This write-up also appeared in the Spring 2012 edition of Kashmir Lit.)
(This write-up also appeared in the Spring 2012 edition of Kashmir Lit.)
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